Friday, July 31, 2009
10th Anniversary
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
An interesting parenting article
A friend posted this on FB. I love this! A great article.
Top 10 Things - Kids Most Want and Need from Their Parents
- Patience
- Understanding
- Listening
- Soft voices
- Structure
- Consistency
- Love
- Freedom connected to responsibility
- Family and extended family
- Role models
Patience: Things take time. It’s a simple and frustrating fact of life. You want your child to learn faster, change quicker, get unstuck sooner, and move ahead in life. But kids learn and change as fast as they are able, and no faster. If you can accept that, allow yours to be exactly where she is, and help her move, slowly and steadily, toward her goals, she might surprise you. Impatience, and its sidekicks Anger and Frustration, actually slow change, eating up energy and time. Tools like the Balloon Breath and a Special Place can help you keep your cool and gain perspective.
Understanding: Childhood is a profound and challenging time, yet we quickly forget what it’s like to be a kid. With your understanding, your child will feel supported enough try new behaviors. Without it, he can feel cut off and alone. Let your imagination take you back to when you were ten, or eight, or five. What were you like? What crazy things did you hide from your parents? What were you proud of that they didn’t understand? How did they handle it? What would you have preferred? You don’t have to agree with your child’s point of view. You can still impose consequences on poor behavior. But if you can at least understand how he feels and why he does what he does, you can become the true coach on his life team.
Listening: Sometimes kids need to talk. A lot. They don’t want a quick fix or even a full solution. Often, unless they ask for help, they just want to know that you hear them. Even when they do ask, it’s still better to listen first and solve gently. After all, how can you understand what your child is experiencing until you really hear what she thinks and feels?
Soft Voices: No one likes to be yelled at, and children tell me they hear their parents’ words more clearly when they use soft voices. Otherwise, they hear the roar but miss the message. Tools like the Balloon Breath and Listening to Your Heart and Belly can center you before you speak, keeping you focused on the lesson you hope to impart.
Structure: Since much of life is unpredictable, clear boundaries, rules, and routines are comforting; they provide a dependable framework for your child’s life and help him feel safe. Try to incorporate imagination time into the structure of your day or week with the same stability as bedtime rituals and family meals. Your child will come to look forward to and rely on it.
CONTINUE READING Top 10 Things - Kids Most Want and Need from Their Parents ON INTENT.COM
By Charlotte Reznick on Intent.com
Charlotte Reznick Ph.D, author of the forthcoming book, The Power of Your Child's Imagination: How to Transform Stress and Anxiety into Joy and Success (Perigee/Penguin NY, August 2009), specializes in helping children and adolescents develop the emotional skills necessary for a happy and successful life. She is a licensed educational psychologist and Associate Clinical Professor of Psychology at UCLA.
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Monday, July 27, 2009
Butter Prawn
Aku memang suka sangat makan butter prawn. So far, the best butter prawn aku pernah makan was kat ermm.. apa yek nama kedai tu. Sederet dengan Kelfood kat Taman Melati, a chinese muslim restaurant. Nanti aku selidik balik apa nama kedai tu. Last nite dok belek2 email2 yg telah aku archive kan, ternampak la recipe butter prawn jahd. Aku peel kulit prawn tu sebab iman and iffah tak suka makan udang yg ada kulit. Maka, it looked a bit togel.. hehe. Yang penting, sedap hingga menjilat jari kaki.. ops! jari tangan. Shariff je yang suka jilat jari kaki.
Ni diceduk sebijik-sebijik dari email jahd, later aku akan edit. Now too lazy la sebab nak kena masak dinner for Mas and her husband. Her husband is going back to Dubai on friday.
Recipe Butter Prawn setelah diedit
Ingredients (adapted from http://rasamalaysia.com/butter-prawns/)
1 kg large prawns
Oil for deep frying
3 tablespoons butter
10 bird’s eye chilies (chopped)
3 sprigs of curry leaves (use only the leaves)
3 cloves garlic (finely chopped)
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon sugar
1/2 teaspoon chicken stock granules.
4 egg yolk
Leave the prawn heads and shells on but chop off the eyes part. Slit down the back to remove the veins. Pat dry. Heat oil and deep fry the prawns. Drain and set aside.
Melt the butter, add bird’s eye chilies, curry leaves, garlic, salt and fry for 2 minutes or until fragrant. Add prawns, sugar & chicken stock. Cook over high heat for 1-2 minutes, stirring frequently. Serve immediately.
Egg yolk nak buat halus and ranggup is a bit of a problem. Jahd ada problem nak buat telur jadi garing and halus. Aku berjaya buat sebab aku guna penapis. Panaskan minyak & butter, pastu ambik satu senduk telur, masukkan dalam penapis, and swirl dalam kuali panas. Voila! telur jadi cantik and rangup :DSunday, July 26, 2009
Yasmin Ahmad ~ R.I.P
Friday, July 24, 2009
Still warded
Anyway, today aku nak meronggeng! hehe.. what a word to use. Aku pun tak paham meronggeng tu apa. Plan with nora, anne, ina and june nak jumpa petang nanti kat Chilli's KLCC. Mula2 risau jugak, takut hubby tak bagi pegi. Alhamdulillah dia kata ok. Agaknya dia kesian kot tengok wife dia yang dah beberapa hari tak cukup tido, boleh la jadi zombie kampung pokok pisang tak lama lagi. So Makcik Ton will be looking after Iffah while her mama pegi bersuka ria. Sounds so evil la pulak...
Lagi satu soalan favourite Iffah "Pukul brapa food sampai?". Apparently having diarrhea makes her hungry all the time. But the sad part is, once she eat something, then she will start purging. Last nite she was so hungry, mintak nak makan. Aku tak bagi, takut nanti dia akan start purging balik. Pastu in the end, I relented, tak sampai hati tengok air mata berjurai2 kat pipi dia. As expected, lepas je makan, purging balik. It took quite sometime for it to stop. Kesian anak mama.
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Iffah Demam..
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Books
Ada few plastic bags yg penuh dengan baju2 iman and iffah masa dia orang kecik. Tu setelah bagi orang 6-7 plastic bag besar baju. Pastu toys dia orang pun still ada lagi. Hari tu adik aku nazri datang, dah bagi banyak toys. Rupanya ada lagi toys kat atas tu. Pastu buku! Banyaknya buku2 aku. Aku ni suka betul beli buku, bersepah2, macam2 jenis buku. Then masa dok mengemas buku2 tu, ternampak la few crochet books yang aku beli ages ago masa aku pegi visit adik aku, Harun kat Tokyo. Bila tengok buku tu, teringat Mel. Apa lagi, terus aku hantar message to her dalam facebook, tanya whether she wants to take ownership to the books that. Today, aku akan hantar the books to her mother kat KL.
Phew! at least ada orang nak buku2 tu. Kalau tak, jadi barang antik je la kat rumah ni. Masa beli buku2 tu, aku tengah bersemangat nak buat crochet. Duduk kat Tokyo almost a month, terjangkit pulak dengan adik ipar aku yang suka crochet tu. Kita orang siap pegi kedai alat2 mengait, beli benang dan segala mcm benda yang berkaitan. Siap beli buku lagi. But, seperti biasa, bila balik KL, projek crochet aku tak siap2. *sigh*.. seperti yang dijangka kan, aku terus hilang semangat nak buat crochet. Hubby selalu cakap, aku ni hangat2 taik ayam. But the problem is, aku rasa, taik ayam tu, hangat dia lagi lama dari aku.. hehe..
Friday, July 17, 2009
Kid's lunch box
Kenapa aku masak sup everyday this week? My dear hubby dah complain, he'll die soon kalau aku tak berenti masak sedap2. It's not that I'm retaliating against that, but aku pikir, taknak la dia mati awal. Lagipun dia dah nak masuk 42 years old January next year, risau jugak aku. Bila dah sakit, susah nak ubat. Mencegah tu kan lebih baik dari merawat. Now, I'm trying my best untuk kurangkan masak makanan yang sedap, kurangkan nasi, and kurangkan buat dessert. :)
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Tiket Hilang!!!
Aku rasa sekarang ni kecurian, rompakan semakin menjadi2. Ni lebih kurang mcm cerita Batman, Gotham City yang forever laced with vice and crimes. Baru kelmarin, another friend, Sally, rumah kena pecah masuk. Pastu few days ago, Mel pun rumah kena pecah masuk, but in her case, by masked robbers, merompak in broad daylight. Her husband kena pukul dengan baseball bat. Kesian anak2 Mel, they must have been traumatised with the whole incident.
It's actually a sad week this week. Another friend, As, baru je email semalam, her MIL masuk CCU sebab her cancer dah spread, then Fezzy pulak anak masuk SJMC sebab patah tangan. Nauzubillah that Allah uji aku macam tu. Macam2 jadi this week. Ishk! taknak sambung tulis blog today, it's so depressing.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Harry Potter & The Half Blood Prince
Iman has been waiting for The Half Blood Prince utk keluar since last year. Mula2 kan patut keluar in december, pastu kan tak jadi. She has been counting the days, siap ingat lagi bila show tu akan release, talk about a fanatic fan. *sigh*.. punya la fanatic, siap boleh cerita lagi kat Mama dia yg blur ni, setiap character dalam citer Harry Potter. But of course, dia tak baca buku lagi, dok ulang tengok movie je.
To those yang tak sempat lagi nak beli tiket or nak gi tengok tapi tiket sold out, jangan jeles! hehe.. Roger kata kita orang kiasu.. kah kah kah.. memang kiasu pun. Though Harry Potter langsung tak handsome mcm Edward Cullen, tapi aku still takleh nak hilangkan rasa kiasu dapat beli tiket awal.. hehe..
Enjoy! :D
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Cik Tiramisu
Walaupun rupa Cik Tiramisu aku tak secantik mana, tapi rasanya sungguh lazat. Gambar kat bawah tu diambik setelah iffah makan separuh. The tiramisu was supposed to sit for 2 days, but unfortunately by today, dah tinggal 20% je lagi. Ibu Shariff ada rumah, maka segala makanan kat dapur pun licin dimakan oleh Ibu Shariff tu. Mana la anak dia tak bulat, tengok la mcm mana ibu dia makan.
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Chocolate Pound Cake
http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Chocolate-Pound-Cake-III/Detail.aspx
- 1 1/2 cups butter, softened
- 2 1/2 cups white sugar
- 5 eggs
- 2 teaspoons vanilla extract
- 2 teaspoons instant coffee granules dissolved in 1/4 cup hot water
- 1 cup buttermilk (if takleh jumpa buttermilk, boleh buat sendiri by adding 1 tsp vinegar to 1 cup of milk and let it stand for 10 minutes)
- 2 cups all-purpose flour
- 3/4 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
- 1/2 teaspoon baking powder
- 1 teaspoon salt
- 1/4 cup of milk (aku alter the recipe a bit. I love moist cake)
2. In a large bowl, cream together the butter and sugar until light and fluffy. Beat in the eggs one at a time, then stir in the vanilla. Beat in the flour mixture alternately with the dissolved coffee and buttermilk. Pour batter into prepared pan.
3. Bake in the preheated oven for 60 to 70 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted into the center of the cake comes out clean. Let cool in pan for 20 minutes, then turn out onto a wire rack and cool completely.
Saturday, July 11, 2009
Spicy Chicken Rice
Anyway, ni lunch today. Hubby said to me "Kalau I mati cepat, it's ur fault, asyik masak sedap je hari2". Grrrr.. really make me angry. Then fine! I told him, I will only cook bubur starting from monday for 1 week. Monday will be bubur ikan, Tuesday bubur ayam, Wednesday bubur sayur, Thursday bubur daging, Friday bubur kosong, Saturday bubur sayur again and Sunday I wont cook.
(Recipe yg direka dan diletak nama sesuka hati)
The rice is quite healthy sebab aku cuma guna olive oil campur dgn sunflower oil sahaja. Pastu berkuahkan yogurt sejuk. Peh! sedap.. mana la laki aku tak makan 2 pinggan.
Friday, July 10, 2009
KL library - Wangsa Maju
Iman and Iffah pinjam buku almost a month ago. Patutnya kena return about two weeks ago, tapi tak sempat2 nak singgah. Tadi masa hantar kena denda RM6 for 6 books.. I was shocked! so cheap???!! Rupanya dia org charge RM0.10 sehari for 1 book. Rasa mcm tak berbaloi je, too cheap. Buku2 pulak yg jenis mahal2.
Ni gambar the kids kat library tu which was taken quite sometime ago.
Where is it? Below is the address and the opening/closing hours.
Address
Perpustakaan Kuala Lumpur
Cawangan Setiawangsa
87, Jalan 2/27 F
Pusat Bandar Wangsa Maju (KLSC), Setapak
53300 Kuala Lumpur
Opening Hours
Monday
2:00 p.m to 6:45 p.m
Tuesday - Saturday
10:30 a.m to 6:45 p.m
Sunday
11.00 a.m to 5.00 p.m
Closing at :
- First week of Saturday and Sunday
- Tirth week of Saturday
Telephone No
03- 4143 8745
03- 4143 9035
Sambal Tempoyak
Dulu masa kecik2, aku cukup tak suka tempoyak. Kalau balik kampung kat Terengganu, aku akan avoid makan tempoyak, selalunya aku cuma makan nasik berkuahkan budu dengan ikan masin. Bila dah besar ni, sejak dua menjak dah kawin, suka pulak tempoyak. But aku tak pernah beli tempoyak. Some vendors yang jual tempoyak akan campur durian dgn pisang, thus nampak lagi banyak. Rasa memang tak sedap langsung. So aku cuma makan tempoyak yang mak aku buat je. Alhamdulillah, kita org memang ada kebun durian sendiri, mana2 durian yang dah terlalu masak, akan dijadikan tempoyak and lempuk. Lempuk pun aku tak suka. Dunno why, kalau durian, dimasak, maka aku akan avoid. Contoh, pulut durian, pengat durian, lempuk, dodol, ice cream durian dan yang sewaktu dengannya. Aku cuma makan durian fresh or tempoyak sahaja.
Teringat masa arwah nenek aku ada, ni nenek belah mak. Tokwan (gelaran nenek aku) akan buat tempoyak dalam tempayan, pastu simpan dalam tanah. Sometimes tu berbulan2 tempoyak tu disimpan. Come to think about it, menyesal pulak aku tak rasa. Sure sedap. Teringat arwah nenek and datuk aku tu.. *sigh*.. yang paling aku ingat, every morning, bila nak beli gula2 je, dia akan tunggu kita orang depan kedai aunty aku (a single mother with 7 small kids masa tu) and bagi duit kat kita org. Instead of beli gula2, kita orang beli nombor ekor or was it nombor tikam? It's kindda fuzzy. Aku cuma ingat some kind of board game yang bergantungan kat kedai, where you get to pick one card, kalau kena nombor tu, then dapat hadiah. Tu la kesah zaman kecik2 dulu.
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Monday, July 6, 2009
Ikan Airbag 3 Rasa
Sunday, July 5, 2009
Transformer again!
Anyway, bangun je tido, siap2, terus gi One Utama. K.Mei (Zuleikha's mother) bagi pinjam press kad husband dia, so dapat free 2 tiket. Instead of paying RM35 for 2 adults and 3 kids, I only paid RM15 for 5 orang nye tiket. hehe.. bagus.. lain kali aku boleh pinjam lagi press kad tu. Masa beratur beli tiket wayang, ada la sorang mamat yang tengah berdiri belakang aku, dok bercakap dalam telepon, dari mula aku beratur, sampai la aku beli tiket, more than 20 minutes. Nak je aku swing handbag aku kat muka dia. Dah la mulut dia berbau.. Aku cukup tak paham orang yg tak reti2 nak cakap slow2 in public. Tau la dia ada telepon, aku pun ada hp gak, tapi takde la over mcm tu. Kalau ye pun urgent nak kena bercakap jugak, lower down the volume la. Tak payah la announce kat the whole world that u can talk loud and clear. Dah tak pasal2 aku sakit hati.
Lepas beli tiket, aku terus ke rumah Dina kat Opal Damansara. Actually, Dina duduk sama tempat dengan adik aku. Sepatutnya aku pegi la visit adik aku sama. But since tadi nak cepat, tak sempat nak gi rumah dia. Lepas je balik from rumah Dina, terus kita orang ke One Utama again, tengok cite transformer. Sadly, kita orang duduk dekat dengan screen. Maka terpaksa la aku mendongak. Sakit kepala dan sakit leher aku dibuatnya. Iman and Iffah love the movie!
Friday, July 3, 2009
An accident!
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Impromptu dinner party
It was very meriah. Meje arrived first with his wife and kids. The first thing yang Meje buat was makan durian! dapur rumah aku tu penuh dengan durian, manggis, buah salak and rambutan. Aku ingatkan Meje je hantu durian, rupanya tak. Rodd makan lagi banyak. Gosh! tak sangka rodd mampu masukkan durian byk mcm tu dalam perut dia yg tak sebuncit sham tu.. hehe. Jangan marah ye Rodd. Milah and Aire joined us too tadi. Aire la sampai paling lambat, katanya sebab nak tidokan anak dulu, but I doubt that. Sure Aza jugak yang kena tidokan anak2 :)
It was a great gathering. Thank you friends for coming. Hopefully next year bila Fahmi, Emil and their kids balik cuti summer lagi sekali, we will be able to hold another gathering. Venue this time will be rumah Aire since rumah dia ada lawn besar. Rumah aku lawn sekangkang rabbit. hehe.. Err.. no photos, dalam rancak bergossip, lupa la pulak nak ambik gambar.
Iffah : "Mama, best la adik main dgn kawan-kawan tadi, esok boleh main lagi tak?"
Mama : ...........
Mama ni dah mcm nak pengsan keletihan.